oh goodness, meg and i must be really hormonal (time to get out "when harry met sally" and the ben & jerry's!) ...
 
megilbride: ahh--so are you beginning to doubt that love even exists?
tweevs: no
megilbride: i think its just really really hard to find
tweevs: i just wonder if we are all looking for a relationship as an answer to all our problems
megilbride: that is probably true
tweevs: our idea of love is so overblown
tweevs: which is why i say we're more in love with the idea of love than the reality
tweevs: but eh, who knows? maybe when it happens for us we'll feel completely different
tweevs: i'm just a bit cynical this summer
megilbride: there is this song i really like called twentysomething that really explains what i've been thinking about lately, and it has this line like "maybe i'll just fall in love..that would solve everything...but loves not the answer, nor is work..."
megilbride: it pretty much says everything that like a twenty year old thinks
tweevs: exactly